Love

The First time: Love and lust in a three part story

This story begins at the end with The Last time: Love and lust in a three part story. ____________________________________________________________________________ The Sliding Door tells the story of a woman—played by Gwyneth Paltrow—whose life goes two very different ways based on what transpires at one moment in time: Whether she caught or missed a commuter train.  Most of… Continue reading The First time: Love and lust in a three part story

Love

The last time: Love and lust in a three part story

This story, which I tell in three parts, took place in a span of about 10 years. As I began to feel compelled to share it a couple of years back, I did it anonymously because it was very difficult for me to share something so intimate with the world. But broken hearts come with… Continue reading The last time: Love and lust in a three part story

Mi Vida Loca

Dating: Is this really all there is?

This was originally posted on an old blog back in October 2008. Most still holds true... It was Crosstown Classic weekend and I was at a bar with some friends. It was crowded, everyone was in a good mood. Cubs and Sox fans were giving each other a hard time, but all in fun. I… Continue reading Dating: Is this really all there is?

Live

The lost art of…Sexy

I won't try to lie and say that seeing a man with broad shoulders and muscle definition doesn't make me smile and swoon like a goofy teenager. I believe we're all visual beings to some extent, and I am no different. I will, however, say that I much prefer to see that man's broad shoulders… Continue reading The lost art of…Sexy